one of my biggest turn offs in ANY kind of relationship is thinking that you know me—thinking that what you know of me is all there is to me and closing the door of discovering other layers of me. (admittedly, i have sometimes even felt as if they were limiting my identity.) perhaps, those who do this just simply have not met people with more than one side or layer. it may not be their fault.
on the other hand, i always expect there to be more in the people i find interesting. nine times out of ten, there isn’t and i get disappointed by my own false hope. that’s my fault.
from my experience and looking at other people’s experience, i can only conclude that people like me are the minority. i have always hoped that this wouldn’t true and that i have somehow met an unfortunately large number of the minority.